I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

Have tried EVERY thing I know of to try...diets, exercises, routines, proteins, supplements, physician visits, counseling, anti depressants..you name it!!! NOTHING helps me any...who wants to accept such bad cicumstances....life dealt me such a bad hand!!!!!

I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

My first love was really thin and very bald - and I thought he was super hot. But he also had incredible confidence which probably made him so attractive. So there are plenty of women with tastes that don't obey mainstream media! You should turn off the TV, too, and work on developing your own talents.

I'm 28 and I've dealt with depression %26amp; anxiety attacks since I was 11 and I am not a big fan of antidepressants (though I've seen them work for some). Last June I tried a super healthy diet called macrobiotics and for the first time in 17 yrs I spent over 2 weeks (now a full year) without depression. That diet is recommended for cancer patients and people who need to cleanse their body. I know it did wonders for my nervous system. It's a lot of work, but I'm now emotionally balanced %26amp; no longer so agoraphobic.

About you trying to gain weight: I have to agree about getting your thyroid checked. Also you may have to resort to counting calories and adding 500 per day - try this calculator:

http://www.hpathy.com/healthtools/calori...

I would also recommend the book "Body for Life" - although I don't think their diet is good for the long term (my immune system suffered). The book has pix of thin guys that bulked up.

If you really want to get up from under, you can do it! Be kind to yourself :)

(And coloryst may be onto something: I'm a Cancer %26amp; for 6 yrs I've lived w/ a Capricorn who used to be self-loathing. We're now engaged %26amp; still crazy about each other - he's skinny, too).

I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

1st don't be so hard on yourself! 2nd Keep your head up. Why do you feel you need to gain weight...? Who needs hair anyways,,,people loose their hair all the time. If in your heart your a good person...that's all that matters. Stay Positive..and don't stress it.

I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

Sometimes it seems lousy but just think,how bad it could really be,terminal cancer? go visit a childrens ward of your local hospital maybe then you will see your not so bad off.

I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

You can not do anything about your hair. You inherited that from your family. Being slender is an asset.

I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

heres the best advice i could give you man, make alot of money, then it wont matter...chix will dig you, you can buy friends and steriods, the money is the key here, not the hair...

I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

Well part of that is needing to accept yourself and be happy that you have a healthy body. Hair loss is a part of getting older. Weight training, protein and other things can help with some weight gain, jsut follow what doctors suggest and do what you can. Try not to be so down about yourself, there are much worse things that could effect your appearance and health. It's not as bad as your taking it, there are much worse hands that you could be dealt so be happy with what you do have.

I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

have your thyroid checked.a simple blood test.

I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

Lots of girls, including myself, like slender guys. Buy yourself some new clothes, get a stylish new look, maybe consult a barber about your hair. Chin up friend, you sound like a nice guy, take pride in it!

I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

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I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

Well, I also know one other thing you have not mentioned....you are a capricorn, me too. It is part of the capricorn's nature to be both self destructive and self loathing. This is something we must work everyday to overcome. It is never easy and never a day goes by that I don't have to remind myself that the way I see myself and the way others see me is different. You must try to have the confidence that others have no matter how worthy they are. If you spend all your time telling people all the things about you that are bad they will agree with you. You must instead start by making a list of things that are good about you and these are the things that you should dwell upon. As I said I too am a capricorn and I know exactly how you feel, but my last bit of advice is for you to seriously search for a mate that is a cancer. Cancer personalities are very confident outwardly, but inwardly they need love even more than we do..... noone will ever love a cancer the way a capricorn does, and they need that as much as you need someone to see you as desirable. Please feel free to contact me if anything is unclear to you. Best wishes

I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

GENETICALLY YOU MIGHT INHERITED IT FROM YOUR ANCESTORS,BE YOURSELF,ITS NOT WORTH WORRYING THOSE THING EVERYONE EXPERIENCES DETORIORATION OF THE BODY AS THEY GROW OLD!BEING HEALTHY AND ACTIVE IS WORTH,ENJOY YOUR LIFE BEING YOU!

I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

Clearly you have a serious problem with self-esteem. It's almost an illness in itself and the cure is to get to the heart of the problem and learn to love yourself in order to then go forward and let others love you. Being attractive to others rarely comes down to looks, it's more about confidence and how you conduct yourself. Obviously your confidence is going to be nil while you are sitting around pulling yourself to pieces, so you are actually making yourself unattractive or making yourself FEEL unattractive.

I could tell you to take a look around the world at the starving and the disabled, terminally ill and the amazing people that have overcome losing limbs or being terribly scarred through accidents and fires. I don't think that's gonna work for you because you have already pushed the self-destruct button and it's not about the rest of the world.

You have mentioned all the different things you have tried but one very clever one is missing - hypnosis. I recommend it. My youngest daughter was so shy it was almost an illness, she just couldn't bear other people looking at her. She spent the first four years of her life with her hand over her face and hiding behind me. What made it worse was she was incredibly cute to look at with gorgeous dimples so people were naturally drawn to look at her and commented on how sweet she was. I took her for hypnosis and I walked out of there with a different child! From that day on she has been making progress and is now a very confident, daring, chatty, friendly little girl with more friends than my other children put together. She went on to do Irish Dancing and reached championship level, dancing in halls of 200-300 people each time.

You must make a list (the web will help) of hypnotherapists in your area and find out as much as you can about them before you choose. The one with the most qualifications is not necessarily the best. How long they have been practising and their success rate is much more important. When you go you have to explain that you have extremely low self-esteem and hate the way you look. A good hypnotherapist will know exactly what type of therapy to give you. It will cost anything up to $200 but it's worth every penny (or should I say cent!).

Good luck and I hope you are feeling much better about yourself very soon. Take care x

I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

First off you need to change the way you feel about yourself you need to focus on the good parts of you and learn to love you! And losing your hair big deal shave it bald that look is great and works for a lot of guys. But you will never be happy with you until you love you take sometime to focus on those good parts and who cares about the rest When you learn to love you none of that other stuff will matter and you will have much higher self esteem and more confidence Work on yourself hon.

I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

To me, a slender body is an asset in a man. Hair loss is not uncool coz you can just shave your head and look like everyone else. Maybe you can't see how much you have going for you and you are projecting negativity in your daily interactions.

Try saying thanks each day for you body , and then stand tall and proud and speak to and smile at people more. You will see your feelings changing very soon I bet.

I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

My hubby's hairline has been receding since we met when I was 19 and he was 28, it doesn't bother me! Life has dealt you a bad hand because of your appearance?!? What about someone who was born with no arms or legs? You should take inventory of your life, and really look closely at the good things (and believe me there are good things).

I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

Go to the doctor about the weight problem. As for the hair loss, it could be one of two things: genetics or stress. Only you know which one it is. My brother started losing his hair at the age of 16. Keep your head up.

I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

I took a look at your q %26amp; a, in one of your questions you wondered about the prescriptions causing your hair loss. Did you check that out with your doctor, a change in meds might help. The bald look is in right now, so you might consider shaving it all off, perhaps grow a sexy little goatee. slender guys tend to look younger, which is a real asset as you grow older. Don't dress in oversize clothes, it will make you look thinner than you are. Personally, I have the feeling that you look better than you think you do. Next time, attach a pic, so that we all have an idea of what you really do look like. I do notice that some of your questions and answers are about other things, Nascar, wrestling, etc. Think more about your interests, and learn to be an interesting person to talk to. Interesting conversation holds a girl's interest much more than big biceps. good luck to you.

I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

Did you try a faith system? Your body is fine; your lack of acceptance of your body is the problem. The problem is inside your heart and sole, not your physical body.

I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

I agree w/ the huntress get the thyroid checked it could be over active and that could be the cause of your weight lose. Or it could be something else. You need to see and endocrinologist they specialize in the metabolism issues. Trust me on this it happened to me, I found the right doctor and he diagnosed the problem after years, of trying to figure it all out and now I am on the right medicine. And as fair as the hair goes who cares, if the girl loves you it ain't for your hair honey so buck up and pick yourself up and dust yourself off. It will be okay promise.

I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

Dear letmeknow I wish you well, and you do have my sincere prayers to our Father in Heaven, that He will help you through these hard trying times, sincerely asking God to save and heal you. May He bless you now as you put your trust in Him, if you have a Holy Bible please read ISAIAH 41:10, this scripture got me through some terrible frightening times when I didn`t think there was any hope for me, it will help you too, simply pray to God He will be your best friend and take away any and all fears and replace it with His Love.

I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

Get over yourself. If this is the worse thing that ever happens to you consider yourself lucky.

I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

I suggest some cheese with that whine.

My stomach: to fat.

My hair: to long, because it grows really fast.

My age: 44.

Stop whining, start eating cake and ice cream for dinner and buy a hat to cover your bald ***.

I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

Quit beating yourself up. Nothing is that bad. If life gave you a bunch of lemons then make lemonade.

Life is 10% of what we are dealt and 90% of how we deal with it.

Helen Keller, who was blind since birth, said she like to face the sun because she didn't see the shadows. Good perspective.

Now take first things first. Don't try to overhaul all at once. Take one area and make a list of goals for that one item. work toward it and as you see improvement, reward yourself. Then find another goal that you want to improve. Continue doing this until you've accomplished them.

A good recipe for weight gain is drink a shake mixed of ice cream, egg, peanut butter, milk and banana. Blend well. drink about three of those a day.

Little by little you'll see improvement and start liking yourself. Do a lot of self talk to yourself about how much you like you. You'll be amazed.

I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

ok, I am not saying this to boost you up, but it's true. I love guys who are balding. My husband is almost completely bald. I think he is the sexiest man in the world. He is also very skinny.

Sexy bald men: Bruce Willis and Ed Harris. I know there are more, but I am cracking under the pressure of a name.

Don't worry about being too skinny. In time your metabolism will slow down and you will gain weight. Even if you don't, you have a unique problem. You can eat to your hearts content without getting fat!!

Love yourself just the way you are and others will too. Those who don't are not worth your precious time. Trust me, life can deal you a MUCH worse hand.

I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

you didn't say how old you are.

stop focusing on yourself. When you give of yourself to others and stop focusing on yourself, you will improve. Actually there are some people who are actually not that hot, but they have an innner strength and confidence that makes up for whatever.

Besides you might be a hunk and not know it.

Life is way too short to spend so much time on your appearence.

Self talk. "I will no longer judge myself"

I am a male...I hate myself...my body (too slender)...my hair (I'm losing it.)?

hi, i know this is gonna sound alot like the others but ya gotta learn to love yourself man. I am fat and short and it took me a long time to accept that this is how me and my family are. I took a few steps to improve my health like quitting smoking and exercising more but I will never be skinny..."So what I say" I love me and my friends and family love me so what else matters? The opinions of the masses? They don't even know me. Good luck with your self esteem.